a Possibility Management Trainer.
It has become clear that certain Possibilitators are called to facilitate transformational thoughtware upgrades and support healing and authentic adulthood initiations through delivering Expand The Box Trainings and perhaps, later on, also Possibility Labs.
Delivering with excellence Possibility Trainer services for individuals, couples, groups, and gameworlds demands specific yet unusual preparations which begin by entering Possibilitator Training.
Making the necessary leaps and shift-processes to be a Possibility Trainer is a life-long path.
We call it the 'Trainer Path'.
The 'Trainer Path' is the Path towards - and the Team of - Possibility Management Trainers.
We are generations of Possibility Management Trainers and Trainer-Trainers bonded together through mutually supported Liquid States occurring on the transformational Path of learning to Hold Space, Set Context, apply the 13 Tools & the 7 Core Skills, use 3 Phase Healing, navigate Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) deliver PM Thoughtmaps and the transformational PM Processes, etc.
Next culture - Archearchy - needs many 'Possibilitators' with diverse specialized skills.
The Trainer Path is one of the Archearchy specialties emerging out of Possibilitator Training.
The Trainer-Trainers form a Node on the Possibility Management Trainer Guild Infinity Ring.
For info about training-up as a Possibilitator, please visit: http://possibilitatortraining.mystrikingly.com.
Possibilitator Training is the prerequisite for PM Trainer Training.
For further info about becoming an Expand The Box Trainer, please visit: http://practiceexpandthebox.mystrikingly.com
For info about becoming a PLab Trainer, please visit: http://possibilitylabtrainer.mystrikingly.com
To register for participating in Expand The Box or PLabs, please visit: http://possibilitymanagement.org/calendar
What Is The Trainer Path?
The 'Trainer Path' combines a Trainer Team with a Transformational Path.
The Trainer Path is the Team of Trainers delivering Expand The Box Trainings or seriously preparing themselves to deliver Expand The Box Trainings.
In the Trainer Path, you are as much committed to your own Evolution and Transformation as you committed to the Evolution and Transformation of the people in your Circle and your colleagues on the Trainer Path. You support, love and create possibility each other to shift your Point of Origin from ordinary modern culture to your own unique extraordinary responsibly-contexted culture and becoming a space through which your Bright Principles and Archetypal Lineage can do their work in the world.
The Trainer Path helps each other succeed, not to success.
In the Trainer Path, healers heal healers. You heal each other by going through and holding space for every emotional healing process free of monetary cost.
Some Trainer's Archetypal Lineage is to be a Trainer-Trainer or a Trainer-Trainer Trainer. The Trainer-Trainer's job is to train Possibilitators to become Expand The Box Trainers, and Possibility Lab Trainers.
The Trainer Path creatively collaborates with Trainers and Gameworlds from other contexts to juice up Next Culture gameworlds with the powerful distinctions and initiations discovered in Possibility Management.
The Trainer Path is a transformational Path for Possibility Management Trainers, a continuous professional upgrade program.
Becoming an Expand The Box Trainer requires that you shed, transform and Morph facets of your Box that are in the way for you to become an Expand The Box Trainer.
The Transformational Path of the Trainer Path prepares and open doors for you to:
The Trainer Path is supported by many spaces where Trainer Pathers can meet and practice new skills.
Transformation depends on Trainers
the way surgeries depend on surgeons.
How to skill-up for becoming an Expand The Box Trainer
Trainer Path is but one of dozens of Possibilitator Specialties emerging during the two to five years of Possibilitator Training. Trainer Path is NOT the space to decide if your destiny is to be a Trainer. Your Trainer knacks become clear through what you create while going through the 10 Doorways of the Possibilitator Path.
Ninety-five percent of participants in Possibilitator Training are NOT destined to be Possibility Trainers. They have other destinies needed in Archearchy.
Developing your Trainer Path skills depend on you already having developed your Possibilitator Skills.
Trainer Path is your Process of refining and strengthening the exact skills you need to serve as an Expand The Box Trainer.
The only remaining question is: can you be on the Team?
How do you know if you are on the Team? You are on the Team when the Legends of your actions align with the Purpose of the Trainer Path and when the Trainer Team ongoingly experiences your Creative and Collaborative Communications.
These Qualifications are copied from http://practiceexpandthebox.mystrikingly.com (revised 1 May 2022)
All Possibility Trainers (this means Possibilitator Training Trainer Path Specialists, ETB Apprentice Trainers, ETB Trainers, PLab Apprentice Trainers, and PLab Trainers) are on the Trainer Path, because a Trainer's Path never ends. There is 'no top end' on the Trainer Path. It does not work to think you are a Possibility Trainer and not be on the Trainer Path.
NOTE: Trainer Path does NOT include Inactive Trainers, or Trainers who are delivering predominantly mixed-Context work. An 'Inactive ETB Trainer' is an ETB Trainer who has NOT delivered an online-or-offline ETB during the previous 12 months. An 'Inactive PLab Trainer' is a PLab Trainer who has NOT delivered an in-person PLab during the previous 12 months.
HINT: Check with your 3Cell, your Possibility Coach, your Possibilitator colleagues, and your Possibility Team multiple times about how you are doing with each of the following elements on this list of Practice Expand The Box qualifications BEFORE you trouble your Trainer Path Team with giving you feedback and coaching about these things.
NOTE: Many Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) may be required for you to become a person who can accomplish a qualification which you have been avoiding.
MEMORIZE THE TRAINER PATH GAMEWORLD CODEX AND RULES OF ENGAGEMENT: You literally memorize the contents of the following 4 websites made specifically to support you on the Trainer Path:
2. http://beingatrainer.mystrikingly.com
The reason why all these skills, all these processes, all these precisions, all these books and films, all these websites, all these experiments, and all this Matrix-Building is so important is that exactly these resources are required to deliver Expand The Box Trainings. How do we know this? We learned it the long, slow, hard, painful way from decades of delivering Expand The Box trainings! Exactly these things are what prepare you to deal with what actually is going on in Expand The Box Trainings. You gaining these capacities is what makes it safe and possible for healing and transformation to occur in reality in Expand The Box.
CLARIFICATIONS
A Trainer is not an Educator.
An Educator teaches to others what to know from the Educator's position of already knowing. An Educator adds knowledge to already existing 'knowledge continents', and promotes Defensive Learning - learning something new only when it fits with what you already know.
An Educator is not a Trainer.
A Trainer stands in the nature of reality - nothingness and groundlessness - holds and navigates space for participants to discover what they didn't know they didn't know about. A Trainer lands whatever distinction is needed by your clients and participants. The Trainer as well as the participants navigate spaces of expansive learning - where the learning doesn't build on previous knowledge but comes out of a different knowledge continent. To create a different knowledge continent, the Trainer creates a space with a Point Of Origin anchored in a different context than the context of Modern Culture. In that sense, your training is also a transformational school. Good news that you are in one too!
There is many many schools for educators. Almost every schooling system in the world is a school to teach teachers. There are almost no schools for Trainers. You have found one.
Yes, it is true that from time to time your Trainer job in the moment might be to incite Education. In these moments there is the Clarity that in actuality, you cannot teach a person anything, but anyone can learn anything they want.
In the PM gameworld we are paying more attention to the name of things. This is what we have figured out.
Study http://howtoplay.mystrikingly.com, which gives you a complete introduction to the free-to-play massively-multiplayer online-and-offline matrix-building thoughtware-upgrade personal-transformation true-life adventure-game with over five-hundred interlinked websites, each packed with thoughtware upgrade Distinctions and your next Experiment.
Playing StartOver.xyz is like reading an self-designed evolution and healing book that Builds Matrix in your 5 Bodies at the fastest rate possible.
Play in your Possibility Team. Play in your 3Cells. Play during your Possibilitator Calls.
Go through 100 Emotional Healing Processes and Create a EHP Dojo.
The main resistance that exist right now for you to be a Possibility Management Trainer are your own emotional blocks to Being Present, Radically Relying on your inner and outer resources, sourcing your own culture is your radically-responsible based nanonation.
There is no way around Emotional Healing Process. 100 EHP is a good start.
Create or join an Emotional Healing Process Dojo for that effect.
Deliver weekly Possibility Coaching
Deliver 2 paid online-or-offline Possibility Coaching sessions per week.
By delivering Possibility Coaching, Possibility Mediation, Possibility Psychology, or Feelings Practitioner sessions you will learn from the same processes you are navigating for your clients, or you could not navigate them. Does this build your matrix? You bet it does! Plus you will earn the extra cash you need to participate in your next Possibility Labs. You do not need to work for a corporation.
After delivering 50 coachings free of charge (as your self-made school), start charging a sliding of 80-100€/session (1-1h30 session). After your 100th paid coachings, celebrate! From then on, charge a sliding scale of 150-250€/session. This is the regular price for Possibility Coachings.
Watch All The Films
Commit in yourself to watch the whole list of films at: possibilityfilms.
Each of the films efficiently delivers different kinds of distinctions and stories that build matrix for being a Trainer.
They are Box expanding and effective.
Read All The Books
Commit in yourself to read The whole list of books at: possibilitybooks.
Ken Windes was a prisoner in the maximum security prison at Marion, Illinois. He made an agreement with Dr. Martin Groder, the prison psychiatrist, that Martin would help him grow up enough to get out of prison if Ken would do everything Dr. Groder gave him to do which included reading a list of 100 books. Ken did it. And within a few years Ken was forced to leave the prison because he was too responsible to stay there. Outside of prison Ken delivered The Game training based on what he learned with Dr. Groder.
The Game is the training that inspired The Event that Clinton Callahan delivered for 10 years before starting delivering Expand The Box and the gameworld of Possibility Management.
Listen to All the Talks
Commit in yourself to listen to all the talks at: Next Culture Radio.
Most of the talk dives in the deep end of Possibility Management Trainer technology. You will find in them real gems.
The interview are examples of the different energy for a radio space.
Participate in Trainer Training
Get into every Trainer Training that you can. Trainer Skills Days, Trainer Research Days, Trainer Path Labs, Trainer Skill Labs, ... Trainer Trainings are 2-day or 5-day intense skill-building training spaces. They are invested in creating a particular liquid state for spaceholder, which requires a number of Emotional Healing Process.
Trainer Trainings are often delivered post-Possibility Lab to surf the wave of the liquid states of the Lab and insert finer distinctions, skills and processes needed for trainers.
Deliver 100 Public Talks
Deliver 100 WorkTalks, Interviews, Presentation and 25 one- or two-day Workshops before considering delivering Expand The Box.
The originator of Possibility Management, Clinton Callahan, gave well over 200, two-hour talks before delivering his first Expand The Box training. We found a cardboard box full of cassette tapes of his recorded talks and are putting them online at Next Culture Radio as samples.
During each of your talks you will learn the value of what you are saying, how to answer questions, and how to navigate Gremlin-filled spaces.
Each talk builds Your Circle of people who know you and trust you and will help you become a Trainer by participating in your offerings. These are the people who will come to your Expand The Box trainings.
Take a Stand for What You Have Taken a Stand for
You have already taken a stand to be a Trainer or you would not be reading this information.
You have not already taken as stand for the stand you have taken.
By the end of your fifth or sixth Possibility Lab you will probably have separated your 4 Feelings, distinguished your 4 feelings from your 4 Emotions, unmixed your Emotions, taken responsibility for a number of your Parts, be avoiding a lot of your Reactivity, have your Gremlin at your side, have your Center, Bubble, and Grounding Cord, be able to Hold Space and Navigate Space, have your Bright Principles, be using your 13 Tools, be basically Unhookable, and be able to do Dragon Speaking.
Now, take a stand for the stand that you have taken. Walk down the street, go to parties, meet people with the stand that you are taking: that you are offering them a life-boat out the misery of surviving in modern culture.
If you do not take that stand, they cannot get on the life-boat and you are leaving them behind playing in the obsolete gameworlds of modern culture.
Keep Updating Your Possibilitator Website
That start with making your website.
As you go along your path as a Trainer, you will create content: events, offerings, videos, interviews, processes, articles,...
Update regularly your website so it reflects to the best of its capacity where you are on your path right now.
Send Out Your Monthly Newsletter
When you have about 100 people on your mailing list, start sending out your monthly Newsletter with a photograph, a distinction, a S.P.A.R.K. experiment, and invitations to your Study Group, Possibility Team, Rage Club, and Public Talks and Workshops.
More info at Build Your Circle.
Keep Building Your Circle
Wherever you go, build Your Circle.
This is where you start and where you finish.
A circle has no end.
Keep building your Circle.
A circle is the list of email address to which you send your monthly Newsletter. Before delivering your first Expand The Box you will need to have 600 people in your Circle.
In reality, you should have as many people in your active email data-base as you are friends with on Facebook.
Go to the Global Ecovillage Network conferences and meet as many new people as you can.
Go to where the edgeworkers gather.
Publish One Article Per Month
Write at least one article each month and publish it on Academia or Medium about what you are researching at the moment. This is NOT a blog.
This is NOT a post at your Facebook page.
Write your article, 3-5 pages, with a start, a middle, and an end. It gives a distinction or two. It tells a story. It gives an example, and at the end it gets wrapped up satisfactorily, like a ribbon on a birthday present.
Nicola Nagel, a Possibility Management trainer for the past 10 years, wrote more than 100 articles regularly on her blog.
Each article is a bridge, a doorway, an invitation that upgrades human thoughtware.
You never know who will read your articles.
No one can write the way you do.
Put your articles on your website, in your newsletters, and online at all 8 platforms.
Writing articles is legend making... and leads to you writing your book...
Examples:
Get Your Red Cross Basic First Aid Certification
Get details here:
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or here:
https://www.redcross.org/take-a-class/first-aid/first-aid-training/first-aid-certification
You cannot responsibly hold and navigate transformational training spaces without a basic knowledge of first aid treatment in case of medical emergencies.
Write The Book
Just put it into your cells that you will one day write the book. It is not YOUR book. It is a book of your Archetypal Lineage.
Providing the treasures of your Archetypal Lineage to the world as a way of upgrading Standard Human Intelligence Thoughtware and evolving consciousness on Earth turns on Gaia, and it turns on your Archetypal Lineage...
Can you imagine what your life would be like if both of these Sources were turned on about you?
Do your Other Initiations
Nobody can get initiated for you. More interestingly, nobody can stop you from getting initiated. There are so many additional authentic adulthood initiatory processes that are required to get your life and Archetypal Lineage turned on and flying. Once every two or three months figure out ways to do your next initiation. Many core initiations are listed online at http://goexplore.mystrikingly.com.
YOUR PROBLEMS GET BIGGER
Upon entering the Trainer Path, you might discover that your problems get bigger.
The Trainer Path happens only if someone sources it. Who is source the Trainer Path? That would be you and every Trainer Pather on the Team. Each team member sources the Team at the level of responsibility and matrix from which they can source the Team.
When you enter the Trainer Path, most people can source the Team better than you can. So what? They have worked hard and build the matrix to do so by sourcing the Team when others could do it better than them. This is the organism of the Team, team members keep replacing themselves where they are competent. The result is no one is perfectly competent where they are. Everyone is learning to source what they don't know how to source yet. This is an evolutionary gameworld.
What needs to be sourced in the Trainer Path? Many dimensions. A number of those dimensions are listed in the Create a Trainer Path Regional website.
There are different spaceholding circle bringing together the Trainer Pathers who take a certain level of responsibility in the gameworld of the Trainer Path such as:
YOU ARE AN ACTIVE PLAYER
... in the gameworld of Possibility Management as a Trainer.
At a certain point on your Trainer Path, your perspective will shift from a personal one to a gameworld-wide one. This shift happens while you are on the Trainer Path. Your question(s) will shift from: how can I be a better Trainer? to What am I doing to make Possibility Management happen right now?
From this perspective, being on the Team means you act not only for your own benefit, or gameworld but for the benefit of the Possibility Management Trainer Guild itself.
As a Trainer Pathwalkers, you become an active player in the Possibility Management gameworld by taking responsibility and sourcing more and more of the following:
Exit any hierarchy.
Create the collaborators that you want to have by your side.
One powerful way to create hierarchy is to make and hold expectations on your colleague Trainers.
It is possible that when you decide trust , you also create an expectation about who they should be to you.
Creating expectations over them creates this fantasy world that the Trainer gameworld is wonderful and everyone is nice. The moment your mentor behave against your expectation - and be sure that your Gremlin will find evidences to support that story - you will create resentment. This will probably lead for you to give up on your trainer path because 'they are not worth it anyway!'.
What should I do? you might ask. Here's a non-linear offer: trust yourself to be committed to your own initiation, development, unfolding, and growing up process. Trust yourself to take care of yourself around anybody - even your mentor. This requires that you are centered, grounded and bubbled and that you have your sword out at people's neck - including your own. The sword of clarity has two side. When the sword of clarity becomes sharper towards other people's behaviors, it automatically gets sharper towards your own neck too. Then you can trust the Universe to move you and give you feedback, including through your mentor.
In which story do you want to live in? Someone story about you or your story about yourself? The best story to live in is your own (careful not your Box's or your Gremlin's) but the one that empowers you to be a more conscious, healthy, caring and loving human being. That story gets shaped by feedback, coaching, processes, distinctions and clarity from your mentors, and also your peers, participants and friends.
Complaining and criticizing is only and simply unconscious Gremlin food. The Trainer Path is an unconscious-Gremlin-free space. The Trainer Path is not a playground for your Gremlin. Therefore, it is not a space for complaining, criticizing and un-inspected emotional reactivity.
If something in the Team is not working and you notice it, guess whose job it is to handle it? You! Your job is then to take more and more responsibility to deepen the context of the Trainer Path and produce real results from it.
And ask questions.
Be connected with your collaborators. When you have your bubble and they have theirs, you are both taking care of yourselves around each other. This is where the extraordinary relationship between collaborators can begin. At the point, you have your center, your voice, your feelings, your vision and you can make demands on your mentor.
When your mentor shows integrity, ask them to tell you something about themselves in what ways they are trustworthy. Ask them how they learn that skills and if they could train you to have integrity.
When your collaborator behaves in a untrustworthy way, ask real questions, and use Vacuum Learning:
TRAINER FIELD NOTES
What you want to do in terms of energy management is be aware of what everybody in the room is doing with their energy. In particular, when you are doing some of the heavy duty processes like rage work or terror work or deep sadness work. What you may discover is that certain individuals will be trying to incorporate some of the skills that they have in terms of managing energy that they learned from previous or other kinds of trainings. They might be doing Rieke, or Silva Mind control or any number of modality or technologies for managing the energy in the space.
In particular, there are three things that they may be trying to do. One is they may simply trying to ground out the energy, get it out of the room. That is usually motivated by fear on their part and in attempt to protect themselves from being exposed to the energy. So they are trying to dispose of it. Another thing that they may be trying to do is calling forth some angel or some protector or some entity into the space in order to handle the situation or to protect it. They would be doing that under the guise of blessing the person who the work is happening on. The third thing that they might be trying to do is in some other way handling the problem for the person who the demand is on themselves. Not letting the person that the demand is on handle it themselves but this other person may be trying to handle it for them. They might be doing this under the guise of blessing that person or healing them. What is actually happening is that person’s energy is getting into the space of the person who the demand is on. It is a space invasion kind of entanglement and it interferes with the person who the demand is on, preventing them from doing the work themselves. So the basic bottom line method of the Event is that people must do their own work. In prison terminology, this is stated as, “You must do your own time.” What that means is when you are in prison, no one can serve the years of your sentence for you. You must serve those years yourself behind bars. What we are saying in the Event is every person has to do their own work and it can’t be done for them. So the way you pick up on these energy abnormalities or energy aberrations is a body sense. You actually sense in your body where energy is going. How much, what kind, where it is going and where it is coming from. You can actually sense this in your body. You need to be touch with the energy at this level through out the Training. So that you know what is necessary, in terms of holding the space and what is called for in terms of you being the Trainer and what is called for in taking the next step in the Training. Namely, what is needed next.
When you notice a person manipulating or controlling the energy in the space, you might notice that their hands are in a certain position or their attention being elsewhere or some kind of motion with their hands or they might be mumbling prayers to themselves or something like this. There are a couple things that you might want to do and that is to get their attention, ask them to please stop doing what they are doing and indicate to them if they have questions about your request, you can speak with them later about it. It is best not to bring this subject up at large. It is not a subject that people are fluent enough in to have a conversation about that would be a benefit to them. In part, you want to tell the person or ask the person what are they doing. Either they will indicate to you that they know what they are doing and can describe it to you or they may not know what it is they are doing or they may not want to tell you. In any case, please let
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them know that people have to do their own time and it doesn’t work in this training for one person to be in another person’s space energetically. It doesn’t serve the person that the demand is on and neither does it serve the person that is trying to work with the other person because it is actually a rescue. It is a move on the part of the “healer” or energy worker from the position that the energy worker is OK. And the person who the demand is on is not OK. They require the energy worker’s help in some way. Even though they have not asked for it. The truth of the matter is that the energy worker is not being present. Rather than being present, they are doing some energy manipulation modality and it does not work. It does not serve anybody. So, the conversation is very simple and straightforward. Please do not do that. It does not work here. It is not what we are doing here. Usually there is absolutely no problem with that.
Along these lines, for people who are radically shut down and really separate and disconnected, a technique that works to leverage yourself with them is that when a person is on the floor who is doing major sadness or terror work, it works to take the person who is shut down and help them sit at the feet of the person doing the terror work, not touching the feet but directly aligned with the feet, because during deep sadness and deep terror work, a lot of energy is flying out of the participant’s feet and hands and head actually, but to place an individual who is shut down and disconnected in the position of being at the feet of the participant down on the floor doing the deep work. The person at the feet receives the energy into their body and it would be the equivalent of and entire roomful of people screaming at them for the duration of that time. Or actually receiving an energy right into their body and it is a big boost or wake up. So it is something that you can do for people who are shut down.
In terms of energy management over the entire weekend, this may be spoken about else where already. There may be some details in here that have not been included yet. The way the energy goes over the weekend. Saturday morning, we start out on flat level ground, meaning that the energy is very middle world. What we want to do is energetically bond with everybody in the space in the middle world on Saturday morning so the people feel safe and secure and bonded and connected and the trust can start to grow throughout Saturday morning. Even in the first beginning parts of the demanding process that we start. We want to keep the energy in the space real sane, real level, very calm, very grounded, nurturing and have everybody connected into that. As the trust begins to grow and the demands become more and more significant and more and more deep and able to produce shifts in people what you want to do is to relax the energy in the space and gradually over Saturday afternoon until Saturday evening relax the control, the energy in the space until it is really going well where anybody takes it within bounds. The bounds are a kind of clarity and sanity. You want to keep the energy in the room clear and sane and what that means is you don’t want it to go to a place where the demand might be not serious or where it might be teasing or where it might be controlling or manipulating or insinuating, where a person is not OK in whatever way. None of those things work and they are all harmful and you want to keep the energy out of that domain. So by Sunday evening, the energy is going to be incredibly tense and I don’t mean intense simply in an underworld sense, because the energy can be intense in a middle world sense and in an upperworld sense and I suggest that the level of it is so big and so powerful that people are less defended from it. They are less protected. The barriers are down. The buffers have been dissolved. It will seem like the energy is very intense and you want to let it to be that intense. You want to end on Saturday night, if the energy being radically intense, so that people leave the space for example, you don ‘t want to have a mass holding as the last thing that happens Saturday night. You want a very potent, powerful transformational demand that is very high energy to happen as the last thing that happens on Saturday night. What you are doing is you are leveraging yourself through the night. You are imparting people with a powerful experience that impacts them bodily. The last thing that happens on Saturday night is that they will go home and they will be carrying this immense amount of energy with them. They will carry that into their sleep and into their dreams and into their subconscious and into their entire body so that throughout the entire evening and night time and early in the morning, before they come back to the training on Sunday morning, this experience is working them, working them over. So that by the time that they come back into the Training Sunday morning, you have leveraged yourself with everybody all night long and there is incredible expansion of what is possible for everybody who is participating in the Event. They have been worked all night long by the intensity of the energy and by Sunday morning, they are willing and able to go to receive and give at a level that they were not able to before. What you have really done is empower the participants. You have created an environment in which and a situation that produces the effect of their showing up big in a way that they could not or have not before. By empowering every single individual within the Training, your again leveraging yourself. Because every time the demand is on one person, all the other empowered people have their attention and energy focused on that person and it is magnified a hundred fold of what they were capable of on Saturday. All you are doing is leveraging yourself, empowering and training the participants to be able to show up and function and serve in the space which can show up on Sunday afternoon in the Training as almost you the trainer simply being the navigator. You hang back, people are essentially putting the demand on themselves and you can hang back almost at the perimeter of the space coming in when and as needed to keep the training on track. All you are doing is steering. You are not the energetic source because everybody is empowered, every individual in the training to become the source of the Training. This is one of the big things that they will take home with them is their ability to be producing or a cause or a source for the kind of clarity and distinctions and wisdom and instinct and the passion and the Wise Innocence that they are capable of as an Adult man or woman. They are actually training themselves in the Event to be able to do that in that Space so that they have a reference point in their body. So that when they go home, they take that reference with them to know yes that they did in fact do the things that they did. So that it is not simply just a concept or a theoretical idea. What they actually have is an in the body, physical reference point, hours of experience during which time they showed up in a way that they never knew they were capable of before.
So in terms of managing the energy on Sunday afternoon, what may be possible if you have an empowered group of participants is that the trust level is much higher, the ability to tolerate intense energy is much higher and it is possible for you to navigate into tremendously rich, nourishing spaces of very deep sadness, or very healing bonding or connectedness that is a delicate and rare experience in the domain of being human. You can actually navigate the entire group of people into that space if the door opens, you can walk through the door with everybody. You are not even talking about it, you do it energetically. These things happen energetically not by directing peoples intellectual attention in that way. Simply by being roped up with them, noticing an opportunity and walking through the door into the new opportunity and since everybody is roped up with you, they go with you, the entire group goes into this other space. It is almost as if they fall into the space, they actually get sucked into it or dropped into it. So that as a trainer by Sunday evening, you are receiving so much from the richness of the spaces that you are in, the energy that is showing up, that the opposite of exhaustion occurs. It can be fulfilling, ecstatic and blissful almost, what’s happening in the space is that you as a trainer gets fed from what is happening there. Energetically, even though you are navigating in a sense, the source person for the whole training, what’s happening is that’s not using your energy up. You are actually being tremendously fed and nourished by what goes on. So in terms of personal energy management for you as a trainer, this is what you want to watch for, what you want to create. If you are attempting to source the entire training, all day Saturday and all day Sunday from you being the source of the energy, it will totally exhaust you. You will become just completely wiped out. You may get sick or get a headache or get tense or whatever but, if that is happening for you you are not leveraging yourself and training and empowering the others in the space and then standing back and being navigator so that you can actually move into the spaces that actually feed and nourish you along with everybody else. That is tremendous value for people.
One more thing about energy management is that the space that you evoke is powerful beyond anything known. That is the space that you serve in the Event. What may feel like is a stainless steel protection around the space allows it to be pure and go to high temperatures. You are actually evoking the qualities, you are evoking the Athanor, the furnace. The furnace must be solid and capable of tolerating high heat energy without weakening or cracking or crumbling, without letting anything in. So one thing that you want to be aware of is that the energetic entity type things that people have locked away or hanging around them will also be wanting to feed on this space and you want to be energetically aware of keeping those things away and out of the space. There is one point in a training, where we had and incredible training, it was awesome. It was very rich and powerful as I have been describing. On Sunday evening, right at the end of the closing song, just after I was saying that the song was over and we had accomplished all the closing processes. Everything is done and complete and I said good night. At that point, I put my sword back into it’s sheathe and simultaneous with that, with me kind of backing down from holding the space in a certain way, simultaneous with me saying good night and doing that, a huge energy entity came out of one of the participants in the training and just started feeding on the space and started doing this new age bless the planet, let’s heal everybody, kind of thing and it was 15 or 20 seconds before I had my sword out again and put a stop to that. You must be aware of the fact that as the trainer, you are energetically sourcing and holding the space for the training from way before Friday evening until after Sunday evening, so until the last person leaves the room, you are still holding the space energetically for everybody. You are still responsible for that. Be aware of that.
JUICING UP
A trainer must be able to juice up. What that means is regardless of what is going on in a trainer's personal life. Whether he has a fever, a headache, a pain in his back, a problem with his wife or children, a problem with his boss, a problem with his coworkers. Whatever is going on, when a trainer is in the position of leading the training, starting before the Intro on Friday night and going all the way through to Sunday evening. He is responsible for leading the Training. It does not matter what is going on in his personal life. What I discovered is that it is very simple to make a shift between being a victim of one's personal circumstances to be a trainer leading the Event and it is not a shift that is an act. It is not a shift that is not authentic. It is a shift of getting off it. Of dropping a position. Of quit being a victim. What I frequently discovered is that when I make that shift, it is a permanent shift. Whatever situation is going on before the shift occurs disappears because of the shift. The situation that was going on previous to this shift was no more or less authentic than what was going on after the shift. It is just different. One situation empowers the trainer and one situation disempowers the trainer. So, it is the responsibility of the trainer to be able to empower him or herself by making this shift, whenever or where ever it is needed. This does not mean that the trainer does not engage personal problems or ever put the demand on himself in the Training. Of course, they do. Of course they use that space to work on the situations to which they are being a victim.
For the Introduction on Friday night, for holding the space in the training, a trainer cannot be a trainer if a trainer cannot juice up. So the process of juicing up is very simple. It is energetically the equivalent of putting your hand down by your left side and pulling out your sword. Put your hand down at your left side and put your hand on the hilt of your sword. Your three foot long, Japanese beheading sword or your Luke Skywalker light saber. Whatever energetic model that you want to use for your sword. Whatever energetically that you want to do, you essentially reach down and pull out your sword. You got your sword in your hand and you are ready. You shift from being not ready to being ready. That is called juicing up. In Martial Arts, it is a standard technique. It is a standard model. It is the equivalent of centering in the Martial Arts. It is locating who you are or where you are coming from in you. Rather than having your attention distracted or attracted by anything outside of you. It is the opposite of being adaptive. It is adapting to nothing. That is called juicing up. It is the equivalent of being present in the here and now, rather than considering about other people or imagining about the future, worrying about the past. A trainer needs to be able to do so instantaneously. The recommendation is a trainer consider the possibility that he or she could be juiced up all the time. He is either sleeping or juiced up. He is sleeping or alive, sleeping or being centered or being present and at attention. This doesn't mean that he or she is numb. In fact, this is quite the opposite. It is almost a hypersensitivity. It does not mean that the trainer is invulnerable, quite the opposite. It's really a total openness and vulnerability. Without the ability to juice up or be juiced up and hang out in that state and function in that state, a trainer cannot lead the training. Without the ability to sense if another person is juiced up, the trainer can't train trainers.
YOU ARE ALREADY READY ENOUGH FOR MORE THAN YOU THINK
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You will never be ready to be a trainer. The idea of being ready is used by your Box and Gremlin to delay the fact that you are ready to deliver transformative gorilla street theater that will change you and the people around you.
Spark 179 - You are already ready enough for more than you think.
READ AND DO SPARK-EXPERIMENTS WEEKLY
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Reading one SPARK has its own matrix point.
Doing each SPARK-Experiment has its own matrix point.
To receive the SPARK weekly, subscribe here.
MAKE YOUR STUDY GROUP
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Make the Study Group that turns you on. Which book do you want to dive in and wrestle with, with a group of people? Some book are so packed with distinctions and experiences that it might take you a couple years to read through. For example, Radiant Joy Brilliant Love (re-edited as Building Love That Lasts) by Clinton Callahan, or Directing The Power of Conscious Feelings by Clinton Callahan, or In Search of The Miraculous by Peter Ouspensky,
RUN YOUR OWN POSSIBILITY TEAM
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Your Possibility Team is the doorway for people to meet you, your work and how you work.
Your Possibility Team is the doorway for people to enter your Circle.
Your Possibility Team is a space to practice radically relying on your Bright Principles and Archetypal Lineage.
Your Possibility Team is the space where you get to explore your questions, your research, your experimentation.
Create your weekly Possibility Team to practice radically relying on your Bright Principles and Archetypal Lineage.
LISTEN TO ALL THE TALKS ON NEXT CULTURE RADIO
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Some talks on the Next Culture Radio were recorded more than 20 years ago and are still more relevant than ever, despite everything that has been discovered since then. The foundation remains the foundation. Discover where the distinctions and processes that you are using today come from. Pay attention to how the subtle dimensions of spaceholding.
Some talks on Next Culture Radio are recent full of the latest discoveries, distinctions, and processes. Feed yourself on those too.
LISTEN TO ALL THE TRAINER TALKS ON PM TRAINER PATH PODBEAN
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The Trainer Talks on the PM Trainer Path Podbean are recordings of weekly calls from the Trainer Path Global and Trainer Path Regionals, as well as Practice Spaces and meeting of Regional Trainer Path Spaceholders.
READ THE DISTINCTIONARY
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Some people have told us that reading the Distinctionary has changed their lives. What it will do for you can only be found out by reading it yourself.
Perhaps the most exciting way to use this Distinctionary is to read through it from start to finish in a weekly Study Group or Possibility Team. Talking over upgraded thoughtware helps you figure out how to practice it in daily life situations. This is where the fun really starts.
Read the Distinctionary from the point of view of a Trainers who will deliver and land those distinctions in transformational space for the benefit of your clients and participants.
BECOME MAGIC
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Use your own personal research and experimentation the basis from stop believing in magic and becoming magic.
By 'research' we mean your actual inspired efforts to find out what is possible to create and experience, perhaps starting in these three ways:
GO THROUGH INITIATIONS
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Read the initiations website and regularly go through this list of initiatory processes.
Bring a Team of Trainers with you to go through initiations outside of the context of Possibility Management together. For example, Family Constellation or Fire Walking.
Each initiation has its own matrix code and an attached matrix point(s).
STUDY THE TRAINER GUILD
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STUDY THE POSSIBILITY MANAGEMENT MUSEUM
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Anyone discovering Possibility Management now is jumping onto a moving train. We have recently realized that the lineages, history, and legends - which are so familiar to the 'old rabbits' - remain invisible to the 'new rabbits'. Yet understanding the origins of the Possibility Management gameworld is integral to its richness. Possibility Management has roots, shoots, fruits, hoots, books, legends, errors, and artifacts.
STUDY PM THOUGHTMAPS
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Possibility Management Thoughtmaps are 5-bodies multi-dimensional map that when landed in you or in your participants (either by hearing them or reading them) changes the structure of your thoughtware. You will go through liquid state as your participants will. PM Thoughtmaps have many many layers. After delivering them for the 100th time, you will discover something about them that you didn't know you didn't know about. Let them be discovered over and over again. AND explore and study the map you don't know, we discover new ones regularly!
STUDY PM PROCESSES
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Possibility Management healing, initiation, and transformation processes have been empirically developed by small teams of Edgeworkers, Riftwalkers, and Possibilitators throughout Europe and the Americas since 1975.
PM processes are still being evolved, created, and implemented today. They are probably so many processes you don't know about
LEARN TO USE AND DELIVER TORUS TECHNOLOGY
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For many years in the Possibility Management gameworld we've searched for a meeting format that meets four important criteria.
It has been a struggle.
At long last, here is something that truly inspires us: Torus Technology. The decision-making, meeting technology and power-structure that it used in the Trainer Path.
STUDY BEING A TRAINER
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Possibility Management is a Transformational gameworld and therefore the term 'trainer' carries a meaning that is radically different from modern industrialized culture's physical fitness trainer, business success trainer, dog trainer, or school teacher.
"A Possibility Trainer delivers Bright-Principle Transformation for individuals and organizations."
TRAINER SKILLS
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Or vice versa...
Indeed, there are Trainers from each of the four Archetypal Lineages, yet anyone successfully delivering transformational thoughtware-upgrade Trainings will - consciously or unconsciously - apply a shared list of specific but unusual Trainer Skills.
: Practice Trainer Skills With Other Trainer. Once a week, gather with other Trainers and practice one skill. You might need to practice that skill over and over again.
BUILD YOUR CIRCLE
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You want to do something to make the world a better place? You think you can do it all by yourself? Think again.
The world is complex, and the status quo is massive.
The way to make a difference in a complex massive system is to use a complex massive solution-generating organism: Your Circle.
This website empowers you to build, grow and empower your circle.
Take a Stand for the Stand that you take. Keep informing, educating and inspiring your circle of people by explaining practical uses for the Value your Evolutionary Team is creating. This would show up, for example, by your enthusiasm for talking in detail about your Evolutionary Team in seminars, conferences, private calls, on Facebook, Instagram, in your articles, videos, interviews, etc. For this experiment, make a short video blog or write a clear article revealing a secret that is buried deep in the context of the Stand your Team has taken to create the Value you create.
MAKE YOUR WEBSITE
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Your Website is an adult play space for your nonlinear creativity!
If you can walk, you can dance.
If you can talk, you can sing.
If you are alive, you can make a Website!
Making your Website is freedom to explore around inside of yourself and see what there is in there.
No one can grade you about what is inside of you.
This makes for High Level Fun indeed!
Make Your Trainer Website in which you publish your articles, display your offers, and the contexts from which your work emanate.
WRITE YOUR NEWSLETTER
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A monthly newsletter is the regular food that you provide your circle. Your newsletter is not only a place to sell your legendary offers.
Feeding your circle with distinctions, experiments, processes, journeys, articles, SPARK is an essential part of build and growing the circle into which your Archetypal Lineage and Bright Principles can do their work.
DO LEGEND MAKING ACTIONS
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Create Legend-Making actions that ripple through the field. Attracted people will surf back to you on the reflections of your legend waves asking to work and collaborate with you. Legend-Making actions are for example, taking an unreasonable stand, providing Value to people who are ‘bigger’ than you, creating unexpected extraordinary spaces that serve evolutionary purposes.
Make it a practice to do two visible Legend Making actions each week.
GIVE MONTHLY WORK-TALKS
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WRITE (ONLY!) WITH THE TRAINER ALPHABET
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The Trainer Alphabet is used to deliver and land thoughtmaps in a Training space.
The Trainer Alphabet is the fastest, shortest, clearest, most ink-efficient way to write all 26 letters of the Alphabet in capital letter.
Right now, Write The Two Sentence Above In Trainer Alphabet in your Beep! Book.
DELIVER POSSIBILITY COACHING
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Each Possibility Coaching creates a new future for your Client and for yourself. Go through each Emotional Healing Process that is stopping your from creating a different future for your Clients. In addition, watch all 100 Create Possibility Demonstration of Possibility Coaching.
INHABIT ARCHEARCHY
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A Possibility Management Trainer inhabits Archearchy wherever you go, whoever you are talking to. You have build enough matrix that living anywhere else than Archearchy is too painful for you. Inhabiting Archearchy means that wherever you go you provide immaterial value, and enhance the value of the people you meet. Exciting no?
DECONTAMINATE YOUR ADULT EGO STATE FROM YOUR CHILD, PARENT, GREMLIN, AND DEMON EGO STATES
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Ask for 'special cleaning' because your Archearchy Specialty is Trainer, and you cannot afford to have even the slightest bit of Contamination remaining. Adult Ego State Contamination acts like extraneous friction-causing projections that slow you down from making right-angle turns at Light Speed.
Possibilitator Training Resources
Be bold! Ask and share what is alive in you.
This is self-leadership. No one can do it for you... and no one can stop you from doing it.
Ask dangerous questions. Share what seems off and what works and ask how you can learn it.
Here is a head start for questions you can ask your mentor.
Have Fun!
1. What am I ready enough for that I am not doing yet?
2. Could you please ask me to tell you in which ways I am ready to give single coaching?
3. Would you please ask me to provide you with single coaching now?
4. Would you please facilitate the initiation of me jacking-in to abundance in my life now?
5. Could you please ask me to explain to you 3 practical ways I can create the cash I need to get to my next Possibility Lab?
6. I have been researching relationship/intimacy/the goddess/the guardian/gameworld building/our connection with Gaia. Could you please ask me to tell you how I will share this with the world?
7. Could you please ask me to tell you the next new talk or workshop I will deliver?
8. Please ask me to tell you how I can create a bridge between where people are and what is possible.
9. Could you please give me possibilities for new exercise I can do after such or such map/ in the context of this workshop?
10. Could you please give me possibilities to start a meta-conversation about a particular map?
11. Could you please tell me in what ways I still behave like a teacher and not an trainer? Could you coach me to shift to trainer behaviors?
12. How do you know when a person's Being is more present than another?
13. Could you please tell me what are the ways you scan people capacity to take more or if they are maxed out?
14. Could you please give me wild ideas to build my own matrix - that does not include reading or watching movies?
15. Could you please tell what is the question that I am not asking you that I should?
16. Could you please give me feedback of where I am on my way out of school? Could you then give me possibilities for my next step?
17. Could you please give me feedback of where I am on my way out of patriarchy? Could you then give me possibilities for my next step?
18. Could you please give me possible way of holding a feelings workshop? What are people most afraid of in these workshop? What kind of exercise are the best to do first?
19. How can I hold a small talk cafe or intimacy cafe? Could you give me possibilities on how to open such a space?
20. Could you please give me possibilities of how to create a solid circle while I am traveling between countries?
21. Could you please give me feedback of how I give feedback?
22. What are the boldest things you can do/ you have done in a training?
23. How to make a joke without hurting a participant?
24. Could you please give me possibilities of how to build context for my next possibility team/workshop/rage club/feeling talk?
25. Could you please share with me ten of your best tricks as trainer?
26. How does separation, competition and mistrust happen most often in a space? What are the ways to shift the space?
27. What if the participants are sleeping? What are the best way to wake them up?
28. Could you please give me wild ideas of what kind of workshops are needed and do not exist yet?
29. How do you use your femininity / masculinity in your training?
30. When is it useful to yell at someone or give feedback instead or let it slide? Please give me precise example or memories you have.
31. How can I empower the trainer type person next to me?
32. Could you please ask me to give you a list of personal experiment that I can ask the participants to do during the training?
33. Could you please ask me to give you a list of 'homework' that I can give the participants when they go home after a training?
34. Could you give me insight of how can I live with paradoxical stories inside of me?
35. What in your experience is the most powerful story for people to shift?
36. Could you please tell the most amazing mentoring experience that you have ever received and could you please give that to me?
37. How can I start my life over again in the context of next culture/archearchy where initiation has the highest value?
38. Can you please coach me about how to stay in relationship with my current family and friends while I go through my transformational liquid states and initiatory processes?
39. Which three TPP healing processes would be the most important for me to learn right now?
40. How do you justify leaving modern culture behind while still deliver your service in modern culture?
41. What is really blocking me in my moment to moment life from being a radically responsible Pirate (meaning extracting myself from the patriarchy, waking up from being a Zombie, and refusing in almost every circumstances to be a sheep)?
42. Please pull the rug under me.
43. Where I am avoiding using my sword of clarity? In other words, where I am making assumptions, where am I enmeshed, where I am being a vampire, a parasite on people or organization, where am I not making boundaries, where am I being sloppy about holding radical responsible spaces, where I am letting my Gremlin feed and paying high prices for the consequences, etc...?
44. How can I more often consciously use my Bag of Things and my Gremlin as a resources of non-linear possibility so that I can provide bigger services to the individuals and organizations?
45. Could you please give me one small useful assignment with a deadline for which I can prove to me and you that I have integrity (integrity means that I will do what I say I will do)?
46. What belief do I cling to as a band-aid over a hole in the side of my box?
47. What are my taboos? What are my superstitions that I don't yet recognize as superstitions and still think they are the truth?
48. Please ask me if I have ended my submissive slave contract with the Church. If have not, ask me by when I will do that. If I refuse to do it, ask me to watch the movie the Mission and then ask me again to explain in detail why I still support the patriarchal hierarchical
49. How do I create Heaven on Earth right now for me and my friends and colleagues?
50. What will happen when I die?
Extra bonus question: Please ask me if I am male or female, and why do I have that story?
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Anne-Chloé Destremau
Global Spaceholder for the Trainer Path Specialty of Possibilitator Training
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